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190  | 峭直深刻之人明習法令所以檢護其身可使無過此其所長然卒有其所長以把持窺剌為心一二聽之使人沓迫不容苟善其刻而用其深則必置人主於有過之地士有負俗之累而其心坦明出於愷悌不肯欺負人主以賊其民與彼刻深之人相去萬萬豈可以有瑕之玉而置於碔砆之下乎取人於上者將何擇哉陳了翁集賞必當功罰必當罪刻核之論也罪疑惟輕功疑惟重君子長者之心也以君子長者之心則自無刻核之論如君子不盡人之歡不竭人之忠去其臣也必可使復仕去其妻也必可使復嫁如此等論上下熏蒸則太平之功可立致也芝草生甘露降醴泉出皆是此等和氣熏蒸所生舍人雜錄發人私書拆人信物深為不德甚者遂至結為仇怨餘得人所附書物雖至親卑幼者亦未嘗輒留必為附至及人託於某處問訉干求若事非順理而巳之力不及者則可至誠面卻之若巳諾之矣則必須達所欲言至於聽與不聽則在其人凡與賓客對坐及往人家見人得親戚書切不可往觀及注目偷視若促膝並坐目力可及則斂身而退候其收書方復進以續前話若其人置書几上亦不可取觀須俟其人云某所惠書云云足下請觀之方可一看若書中說事無大小以至戲謔之語皆不可於他處復說凡入人家切不可於几案上及書□等內翻看人家書簡及記事冊子錢穀文簿若人將文字令巳看切不可於背後觀皆無德之一端也凡借一物上至書冊下至器用苟得巳者則不須借若不獲巳則須愛護過於已物看用才畢便即歸還切不可以借為名意在沒納及不加愛惜至有損壞大率豪氣者於巳之物多不自愛惜借人物豈可亦如此此非用豪氣之所乃無德之一端也凡飲食蒸餅去皮饅頭去蒂肉去脂皮之類皆非成人所為乃癡呆無知而已自非生硬臭惡與犯已宿疾之物豈有不可食之理凡與人同坐夏則已擇涼處冬則已擇暖處及與人共食多取先取皆無德之一端也范益謙自戒 |
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